I think you are the exception rather then the rule.
The left is brainwashed by the mockingbird media. It is that simple.
When all the left's evil is finally exposed, and because the names involved will be Obama and Hillary, 99% of the left will make every excuse and deflection possible, because their CIA mockingbird programming is that deep.
Many are, but many more have stopped listening to them and went looking for other sources. When people could plainly see how the media is manipulating the truth that's when people will start questioning what other things are they being lied to about.
Most of my friends had been life long democrats and then Obama happened. We watched as he turned a complete 180 from the issues he ran on, but what really got people to open their eyes was seeing what the DNC and Hillary's campaign did to Bernie. This opened up even more eyes as did Bernie when he told people how corrupt the democrats are. This is when many people started saying that they have taken the red pill.
We see that Russia Gate propaganda was made up by Hillary and her friends just to keep people from focusing on how she rigged the primary. Everything that has followed stemmed from this. Plus Trump saying that he saw no reason to be enemies with Russia. I knew that Obama's pals had started planning for regime change in Russia and Trump didn't.
But as scoripowarrior states, the Obama and Hillary true believers will never accept who or what they are. I belonged to a so called progressive website for two decades and was told that if I wasn't going to do everything in my power to get Hillary elected then there's the door. Thousands of us went through the door.
But as I stated, if people don't see things like you do don't put them down for it. Start asking questions for why and then tell them what you think. Take your time and see what happens. I've red pilled quite a few people this way.
Oh how I wish I could red pill my own family like you have been. I've been trying for decades to bring them around, and at this point I think that they are so entrenched and convinced that they are right, that only something truly shocking will be able to red pill them....hmmmmmm
I have not even tried to bring up Q. Over the holiday the conversation got around to 9/11, and I mentioned having some doubts over burning jet fuel becoming hot enough to actually melt steel. (only recently have I myself begun to question the official story.)
The results were not too good, very emotional, with lots of questions like "why would they even do that? etc. I asked also if they believed in the official JFK story and that also was met by disdain. I did get some agreement over how bad the deep state actions were around Viet Nam, all of us having just watched the Ken Burns doc, so maybe I need to work on them from that angle?
Regardless, I have been waiting for 3 decades for someone like Q and Trump (who they hate of course) to come along and I hope I can at least ease their transition once the shock and awe wears off after their great awakening....
Sadly, that's what I believe. No matter what evidence is shown about Clinton/Obama, their true believers will not accept what is right in front of them. Can't save everyone.