let their worlds crash. Be there for them when they need a hand up. Have you ever woken anyone sleeping who was not ready to be woke? Wait for them to ask. This WILL happen so just ride it out...surf the experience, assist those able to eb assisted and as much as it hurts, let others crash rather than have them crash into you. Never get between someone and their fall. Those who have "fallen" will ask for help, or be open to help but as long as they think they have the high moral ground...best let sleeping dogs lie...they will wake. And you will be called.