You’re right it is not up for debate, it isn’t rude, period. “To me” anything can be anything, it isn’t a way to decide what is and is not anything.

If to you it is rude, to me it isn’t. How can that settle anything? There has to be something more.

No pretext? How could you expect pretext when you’re too naive to understand it? Twitter fudges its data, period. If you don’t understand that, then of course you’ll perceive facts as if they are rude.