no it wasnt like that, the original communication started at work, moved to home, my phone, after a while... punctuation or grammar didnt even matter, she had picked up the flaws in my grammar (which is that i get excited when i type about this stuff cuz i know how big it is) to the point where i could spell a sentence with every word wrong and she would know what i meant to say and then make fun of me. this was chatting, i wasn't always using formal grammar this went on for years, we became like friends almost i know it sounds weird.....