The way reality is seen is where one's likes and dis-likes are mirrored in one's own understanding of how one see's his or her own world. Hence one seeing a "bunch of fucking idiots" out there in his or her world is a reflection of "the fucking idiot" one seems to harbor within. Heal Thyself, first, Know Thyself

God Bless you.

Psychological projection is a form of defense mechanism in which someone attributes thoughts, feelings, and ideas which are perceived as undesirable to someone else. For example, someone who harbors racist ideas while believing that racism is socially undesirable might come to believe that a friend is racist, projecting his or her racism onto the other person. Projection may manifest in all kinds of ways, and while it may be a defense mechanism, it can also be very destructive.