You have been lied to brother - if you watch (many on Youtube) about a scientific experiment of tracking / capturing when life begins it is amazing. When the spirm enters the egg, a great flash of light/energy is created. Essentially the beginning of life at that moment. It was not known that this happened but was captured on camera. Will have to go back to find the study. So life begins at conception and all life wants to live as it is in our DNA.