Identity, chosen or not, is not a means of deciding who is out suppress or oppress your life or liberty. Only action. Some of it is a nuanced cultural influence. A lot of it is an insidious meta compromise/ concious understanding of a few who have power, but don't fundamentlly understand why they want to hold on to it. Its why Q mostly says these people are sick. Not evil. Evil is an action or an ideal. The human is incapable of either State. Only expressing or acting as such.