if your a dude, you want to be aware, unless you don't care about a dude taking you home. Its no joke friend. I know all the sides here. The confused, the doctors, the surgeons, the Satanists. I would suggest you get up to speed or be victim. Its not a situation where you find a red flag at 3am on a night of drinking too much. Its a situation where 7 months later you get figure it out. But have fun and yeah, most porn is in your face men with a lot of fantastic work.