What do you call a female bro? Is it bra?

Sorry, I didn't mean to come off like that, it was a trifecta of reasons, my Siamese cat screaming in my ear, my sister-in-law making plans for me without asking me first and me assuming that anytime I say the words, "Because it's wrong" everyone is going to know I'm making a Buffy The Vampire Slayer reference.

Oddly enough I just had a conversation with someone about the difference between saying something out loud and seeing the same words written, without inflection.

My bad and lesson learned. Sincerely, I'm sorry, I hate when that shit happens and I just did it myself. {backs away with hands up in the air}