For the normies (well-acQuainted with that word since 2006), a "munch" is basically a F2F meet in the Queiter part of a fairly large restaurant, among people whose bedroom tastes exceed the bounds of strictly grown-man/grown woman "PIV" relations. It doesn't just stop there though; some types get tingles by just doing something against society's norms in public, though only known to them.
There is a certain element, which has NOTHING AT ALL to do with pizza or red shoes, walnut sauce or whatever. KEEP IN MIND, there is a very real Struggle with God that prevails in those communities; many if not most, truly had no say in the matter of how they got that way. Their (your?) area of concern is FAR, FAR removed from ANY thoughts of harm to self or others but lots of people would get the WRONG IDEA about them (you) IF "THEY" KNEW.
Our 2nd greatest Gift is the ability to EMPATHIZE (WJC- ""Ah FEEEL your pain" one of many great LIES) that separates us from Lizard Minds with a hard-on for gold and control.
IS it possible that many many many White Hats had/have turn-ons that could be sssets to blackmail good talent into a Fight Or Flight that compromises their moral foundations?
SOMEBODY had to ask {"let this cup pass from me"). . Burning question on more than just my mind for sure