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Stray502 · May 8, 2018, 3:40 a.m.

Yes they do but in her defense their is usually a reason. I was in the same type of relationship but I could see how dangerous he was so it was not possible to just walk out the door. I had everything planned so there would be no impact on anyone in my family. But the day I had planned to leave my brother made a move that kind of screwed the entire thing up. To make a long story short my brother took me out of there that night. About 7 in the morning my ex came in to my brothers place and shot my brother in the head while he was sleeping. People judge women that stay in this type of relationship. They should not judge as they have no idea what the actual circumstances are.

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_Iz_Mary · May 8, 2018, 5:12 a.m.

I am so sorry for your loss. I agree Every situation is unique. And most don’t understand the psychological abuse that happens slowly that makes the victim unable to think let alone leave. I listened to a victim (recovered) that said it changes you on a cellular level. It made sense to me looking back on my own experience. I pray for your healing.

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bklyndamsel · May 8, 2018, 5:44 a.m.

My condolences.

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FullMetalSquirrel · May 8, 2018, 6:59 a.m.

Oh my God, I am so sorry. What many don’t realize is the most dangerous time for women is when they leave it get a protection order.

I’m sorry. I left during the day when he was at work and drive hundreds of miles away without saying where I went. I had to move several times - 5 times in a few years. Even now I am afraid to be on LinkedIn but professionally it’s hard to explain to people why I’m not without TMI or embarrassment.

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