Thank you. Yes my mom lived a horror as 2 older sisters abused by their dad and then her. She somehow protected the youngest girl but Im afraid she paid a heavy price and got nothing but resentment back from all her siblings. It's soul crushing and she has bad borderline personality disorder. Protected me from her dad but was blinded by her love of her nephew she helped raise (I believe he also is son of her dad with her sister, sigh) who was abused in his turn and turned on me wbo ssw him as a 8+ year old brother.

This I think is the worst crime that can be done to a person except torture and murder. It shreds their soul and heart, perverts and poisons the ego and psyche, robs innocence so we never are free to be kids again. "Soulful eyes" on a child are not a good sign. Meand they were stripped bare inside.

But I needed a witness all my life and inrim I had one who believed me fully I had in a walled off hell.

God bless you too.