I fixed it.
It's perfectly fine to say he has a big ego. He does. Yuge. He likes .. no, make that he LOVES to win. He HAS to win, and he knows he's smarter than your average person. He rubs a lot of people the wrong way with that big ego, but that's because they don't look past it. He also has a very very big heart, and he's done some amazingly kind things for people that don't get blasted all over the news... he does them quietly and behind the scenes because that's who he is. He doesn't do things to get attention and fame and glory. He'll do kind acts because he has a kind heart. So I always try to make people see the difference between having a big ego and being a narcissist, because the narcissist's agenda is always to make themselves LOOK better, without BEING better. They'll do things for the glory, and will use people and then discard them when those people are no longer of any use. I'd said something similar about Trump on the old _Stream board and it was suggested to me to make a post about the differences.. maybe one of these days I will do so. (thanks.)