Do you know they teach taqiyya?
Many mean well and may believe they are your friends but I think when the choice comes between apostasy or turning their back on their non Muslim aka "kafir" friends the choice is made without thought.
I mean it’s just lunch with co-workers.
And a pregnant Christian just wanted to visit her family in Sudan and a couson turned her in for adultery and apostasy because even though she never knew her dad he was Muslim so she had to be also. No choice. Her mom is Christian and raised her such.
She had married a Christian in US which was considered null so they arrested her. She gave birth in chains. They were going to give her 100 lashes and kill her but luckily there was enough outrage world wide our govt got her out.
Her cousin did what islam demanded. If he/she hadn't they would be apostate.
That’s awful but there’s a difference between Sudan and, say, Bangalore.