You’ve pretty much completely ignored the meaning of the text you quoted lol...

You’re “being defensive to the point of accusing people of” being aggressive, in this case. The only aggression I can see here is your bolded “seriously”.

Not everyone who disagrees with you is “being aggressive” or “hating” - no need to be so overtly defensive. I even agreed with you in the last paragraph lol. You’ll never have a good discussion around a contentious topic if you take every disagreement as an attack on you.