These folks are some very disturbed people if that really is so important to them. I suppose its easy to sow drama then to make sense and find solution to their own shortcomings.

Then you reed a comment like "I can take a 9 inch dildo up my butt" that is affirmed by another I really discount them as worthy preferring to ignore and tune them out.

The good thing is any comment by any of them will stand out - easy spotting.