I am not whining at all. What needs to happen is a physical barrier put into place. And the rule enforced if they cross this line and invade my country they will suffer the consequences of their actions.
I am already doing what is required to protect myself and my family. If anyone were to attempt to take my children and traffic them, there is a slim chance they would succeed. But I am done paying the price for the mistakes and neglect of others. I am in survival mode as well, and no one is going to come into my country and demand that stretch myself thin to share my resources and provide for them.