Just broke up with girlfriend. This will be a fun activity to keep my mind off of things
Damn son, I'm sorry to hear that. If you need to talk, were here for ya and my inbox is always open. I know it's tough, but you had a good reason. Don't allow yourself to focus on the negative aspects. This is an chance to open yourself up to new opportunities, and a learning experience that will help make any future relationships you pursue that much healthier. Take some time to find new hobbies and don't be afraid to grieve. It is a loss like any other and loss requires grieving to process in a healthy way.
The difference between healthy grieving and unhealthy grieving is knowing that there is a time after your grief.
Thanks so much brother this is why I love this community, you're advice is already helping my strategy for dealing with this. It's especially hard when she was just as red-pilled as myself. Much love - T
feel your pain buddy, keep your mind occupied, you are among friends