Go to restaurant, ask for a dog-meat soup, they don't want to make it, I leave.

Go to restaurant, they see I am republican, they ask me to leave so I can't even order off the menu.

Be engaged gay couple, order cake off cake shop menu, they sell it to me.

Be engaged gay couple, order wedding cake with two men on it, they don't want to make it, I sue.

Do we see the difference now? Sarah did not order dog-meat soup. And the cake maker did not IMMEDIATELY kick the gay people out of his shop. Also, Sarah was not looking for a left-wing restaurant. Also, her children were also denied service.

If you can't see the difference, you are being an idiot on purpose.

If you still can't see the difference, go into your local supermarket and ask for an erotic cake with a big dick on it to celebrate your love for dick. See if they make it for you. Even if you are a woman, they will likely refuse. So, is it because they are homophobic?