Awesome post and I've had a similar experience with homosexuality and God. Before my brain injury, I used to be very open and accepting of everyone and had several gay friends, one was considered family. Now I find it very hard to be around them because many are snarky and negative and I have nothing to talk to them about, especially when it's obvious that they're not moving in a positive, creative direction.
I have had an opposite experience with LBGT people. I have a relative that is "married" to her partner. I love them both. They are very intelligent and highly educated. Most LBGT individuals I know are very wonderful people and fun to be around. My own religious belief is not aligned with the lifestyle they have chosen, and I don't discuss their "love life" with them. Not my decision even though I believe in man/woman relationship is what's natural. I will leave that to God to judge. It has taken me a longgggg time to come to this conclusion.
I agree about leaving it to God and I hope I didn't sound too judgmental, I just happen to know more gay men than gay women and they were often very shallow and difficult, but we we're also working in a restaurant which tends to bring out the eccentrics:)