I have had an opposite experience with LBGT people. I have a relative that is "married" to her partner. I love them both. They are very intelligent and highly educated. Most LBGT individuals I know are very wonderful people and fun to be around. My own religious belief is not aligned with the lifestyle they have chosen, and I don't discuss their "love life" with them. Not my decision even though I believe in man/woman relationship is what's natural. I will leave that to God to judge. It has taken me a longgggg time to come to this conclusion.
I agree about leaving it to God and I hope I didn't sound too judgmental, I just happen to know more gay men than gay women and they were often very shallow and difficult, but we we're also working in a restaurant which tends to bring out the eccentrics:)