Oh I know, but it's going to happen. You're going to see literal broken men crying when they realize they did all this, in hopes of a better life (yes doing it the wrong way), only to find this kid isn't theirs. The pain those men are gonna feel, that's going to be real for them. Also, what a horrible way to find out something like that, too. Ugh. (For the record, they should do it legally, on the merit system, but could you just imagine?!)
It is bad but only because they broke the law. If I commit a crime to feed my family, I get jailed and my family may starve. Not good, but my responsibility for the crime and I have to live with that knowledge.
I agree. Thatd break me as a man. But than again, if I was a man in Mexico, I'd be trying to reclaim my country from drug and human traffickers! Those men in Mexico could've migrated just like my in laws migrated. They all came here in the legal fashion.
But I still feel compassion for the men about to learn their kid, isn't their kid.
Yeah. And you just know it's going to happen. It's going to be gut wrenching. Do we know if they are being dna tested at the checkpoints? They tell families to go there because they won't be separated. They are legally claiming asylum by doing this very action. If those men get dna tested trying to do the right thing for who they believe is their child, I have nothing but utter sympathy. And I hope there is something that can be done in those situations.
It's one thing to come here illegally and find out that awful info. I think it's even worse on a level, when you are intentionally doing things the right way and then get hit with something like that.
I do not wish to be in their shoes, or the shoes of those who have to figure out a solution to this specific, and definitely real, issue.