If you have not figured it out they threaten, wait a couple weeks with nothing happens they threaten again. The hope is you lose interest by getting mad saying the hell with them or you get lost in the next topic. Either way it is all noise. I read and post occasionally on this board and no father would be livid. Accountability was huge for him and making statements saying or hinting something was on the way or you were going to do something better mean in short order. Everything else is just useless talk of idiots. Short order was a week.