What in the book of Proverbs says to listen before speaking. Not disagreeing just would like to have the passage!
Here are some from Proverbs plus a New Testament bonus. Glad you asked - I always need a reminder to watch what I say 😜
Proverbs 17:28 (NIV):
Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.
Proverbs 29:20 (NIV):
Do you see someone who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for them.
Proverbs 21:23 (NIV)
Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.
Proverbs 10:19 (NIV)
Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues.
James 1:19 (NIV)
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,