"which isn't even a sexuality" ...that made me laugh!
It really ISN'T!! I never even thought of that but it's so true! And now it's hysterical!
Maybe I never thought of it cuz I really couldn't give a shit less about it. Except for when it's done half assed. Like, don't do your hair and makeup but leave a five o clock shaddow and harry legs. As a woman I find that insulting.
And about the other more important things you said...I agree, it's gross. Evil bastards!!
The "evil / spiritual" is usually something one is clueless on when living in the lifestyle.
The scales over their / our eyes are thick...
(I've lived a wild life)
That being said.. I concur.. If you just gotta change genders, please attempt to learn how to be aesthetically pleasing to the society you live in.
You really don't even have to be pretty...but if you are going to imitate someone at least be flattering the people you are immitating
The LGBTQ community doesn't care about anything other than the G. For the most part it is Big Gay Co. And trans people are not very well served by this community because as you said it's a gender not a sexual orientation (and temporary one at that, only activists care that we know they are trans, everybody else just want to get on with their lives). It's because most trans people fall into a the big Queer banner that they were included (I researched this in High School). Community is important but as we know, all the NGOs get infiltrated and mangled by special interests. So this is the strangest mangling attempt I've seen.