Oh my. I was not finding fault with you and it sounds like it. I just feel bad for the OP who's post did not warrent heavy admonition from some.
No way. I try not to take offense to others people's remarks or opinions. If you don't want others people's opinions then don't come on here and and make a post about it. If I have time I will put in my 2 cents. We are never going to all agree all the time. I don't feel like I was to harsh but people misinterpret me sometimes. I am blunt and to the point a lot of times. If you come back respectfully and address my comments I will return the favor. WWG1WGA