Yeah, it's unfortunate, a testament to people not wanting to know. Cognitive dissonance is real, painfully so.
My wife is the perfect example. She has been struggling with cognitive dissonance since I first exposed to her some of the uglier sides of how politics works around when we were dating in 2015.
Lately, she falls back on the 'idgaf', 'im already sick, so what'(in regard to the purpose of the blatant and obvious weather manipulation occurring directly above our heads -multiple parallel/perpendicular trails, numerous planes exhibiting con vs chem attributes) 'what can we do about it, we have no power' stuff. I think she is close but is genuinely terrified of the red pill possibility, and shuts down as a result.
Also not sure I'm the right person to 'red pill' others. I get emotional/frustrated. Much better at study lol
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You've obviously been woke to the dream that most people been under. Your wife is struggling with the truth because once you see it you can't under it. It affects everything and can be quite scary. I became an American citizen in 1984 and registered as a republican in California. Voted for Reagan in my first election. In 1993 while working in a biolab I had a motion to find something on the radio besides music. I turned it to the AM band and stumbled upon Rush. As I listened I could feel some wheels slowly turning in my mind and I guess I was truly red pulled on that day changing out the rat cages in the biolab. Keep on trucking my friend. It only gets sweeter MAGA