So, IMHO this is key. We each have a circle, and the circles will grow. Truth will win.
Today, for the first time in nearly TWO freaking years, I heard my spouse compliment Trump. This is from a rabid Trump hater, suffering from the worst case of Trump Derangement Syndrome I've ever seen. Been stressful living with this for nearly two years, but slow chipping of the ice, persistent, slow dropping of the facts and today IT FINALLY HAPPENED. Local circles are valuable and shouldn't be underestimated. This is our purpose…or one of them, anyway. This is how we win. Spouse is now talking to others who are listening for the first time, since it is coming from 'one of their own'.