talk about the problem in another country. show them this video https:// www.facebook.com/1633929420209134/videos/1934106150191458/?hc_ref=ARR6t_-xc28ylFLU5AOHd0nTO7_Zat3zaxcbLOv0rXXYz8o_HGTXzRMOLi4OrD6CaIg&pnref=story
then slowly get them used to the idea that it is happening here