Yes, I know these things first hand. For the TIs this is a difficult subject as it has negatively affected most of our lives in some way or another. It's difficult to explain and can be very painful. If you wish to discuss it further, I am willing to answer questions on META. Post there and I will respond. I have also made a few posts which you may wish to read. Mine are toward the bottom of the thread.
Yes, one never knows what can be found here. You can post there and I'll answer. God bless, anon.