I'm just going to toss in one and only one comment then leave.

You have to take the good with the bad, that's life. Everyone is going to have to grow a thicker skin, no way around it. Otherwise you're going to live a pissed off life and life is too short for that shit.

You can not control how others think, feel or act in a free setting, you just can't. And why would you want to? Aren't we all here fighting for Freedom?

You can't control it unless you're going to change it from a free open board to a controlled one and that will only drive people away.

My father taught me as a child,

You can't control what others do, you can only control yourself. Just do what you know in your heart is right and don't worry about someone else. Any wrongs they do is on them, not you and they'll have to face any consequences for their actions but it's not up to you to correct them. Best you can hope for is just do the right things and hope you're an example for them.

God Bless. Everyone owes so much to all of you who donate so much time and effort to the board, don't think it's not greatly appreciated! Just think long and hard before deciding what to do, don't let anger or frustration drive your decisions.