I'm grateful for these boards and I know it takes a lot of wotk, but the BO/BV drama rivals that of a bunch middle school girls doing battle for popularity and a prom queen pecking order that will take years of catty posturing and back stabbing to defend. All that energy spent for what amounts to earning the right to paint one's self up like a whore for one night where they can prance in front of their peers who can only look on with freak show fascination.