It's more gender culture wars bullshit but in actual intel agencies.
Since ages, the male gender used brute force to impose its will, the female gender sometimes did the same, but due to weaker body, persuation/influence/seduction was often more effective.
This is how our species was made and works since millenia, no pointing fingers here.
The fact that virgin males exist in significant numbers means in some way shape or form is a potential warning sign that seduction/persuation/etc.isn't effective as usual, and in society breakdown the female gender might not use its influence/persuation/wtv to leverage power.
And it's the mirror effect in full force reaching a primal level. Some feel insulted by the indifference, and it's a way of saying "it's you who male incels is ugly/lack rizz, not me, I'm a total stacey".
Which ultimately is a cope, the only real "solution" is to develop/find/train ways to rizz in the modern age, rather than start a finger pointing contest over who is the bigger autist, but that would require people with a larger vision of life.