Ai anon understands the doctrine of election - "chosen in Christ before the foundation of the world..."
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Not those who are born again of God's Spirit, ai anon. We may see "as through a glass, darkly" but we know we are of one Spirit in Christ Jesus and love Him because He first loved us, and look forward to that day when we shall become one with Christ as His beloved bride.