Isn't "kink-shaming" supposed to be a sin in the lefty playbook?
On the other hand, if all sex is to be wonderful, stunning, and brave, all of a sudden it can be used as a weapon?
It all makes sense when you realize that they don't actually care, it doesn't even matter to them if they are hypocrites.
They're like a mirror, always reflecting to you what they think you will hate seeing. Their own actions are irrelevant to them.