That's because we don't telegraph our moves, newfag.
It's a YUGE story. the tl;dr is my wife (on disability w/ diabetes - waiting list for Panc transplant) and I (Bipolar disorder & a deep seated neck injury from a car accident 22 years ago) had a son last May, who suffered brain damage from a botched delivery. We live off of her disability and our SNAP. There's no way I can work and take care of them both, in my shape. But because I'm a relatively young guy - my state deemed me "able-bodied".