I really agree with this given it is a choice and the Husband or Wife can stay home or both work part time.
Anytime one feels they are in control of the income at times can lead to a power struggle.
If both sexes work as a team without being pulled into a million places it can be wonderful.
My parents were married for 58 years until my Dad died. Raised 7 kids and had each other’s backs. It was a beautiful dance to observe.