what does one do when it is in ones nature to want to help and care about others

but finds themselves surrounded by things not to be trusted ?

I see what happens here in part

they have been taught to put on that friendly or helpful or whatever mask

when they need to use someone for something

steal bread

made ya look now your the bad guy

understanding it is not all bad

but point being they see someone genuine with thoughts and attention

and they go back to default training when they put on that mask they know it is to use or play games

they see someone else and either are mad their actions are genuine or think that person is just wearing a mask and have the hidden intentions they carry