5:5 anon
Couple things Pop taught me as a young lad
We can't control what others think, say or do, nor should we want to. We can only control ourselves so be best and led by example
Don't sweat the small stuff
It's all small stuff
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This one, really became clear when they told me I had cancer.
Suddenly 99% of everything in life came into view as all small stuff, family, loved ones and being the best person I can be, today, are now what really matters to me now.
I survived and have been cancer free since but until you face something like that, what really matters in life tends to elude us as we get caught up in the daily grind.
Keep a solid perspective and Pray