>>10899835 (pb)
you're wrong about me.
a real solider or officer ought to be adresses correctly as 'Sir'. No game.
but the cringey gay fetish thing of some is that they want a commanding man and it's a title they give to what they call a 'dom'.
no real 'sire' or 'sir' would want to be called 'sir' for that reason (in a public situation) and such stupid games don't belong in public.
but it's true, when a man was gay for a while, and realizes his/her (assuming they went too far) mistakes of ignoring the glory of a competent friends who are equals, gets to be a assistent or on the team of a real leader and real commander, who they love, the 'sir' thing , as a stroke of affection, might occur, not creepy. mutual non-sexual love.
but for the gays, when it's always sex, (most gays are not like that all the time) that whole 'call them sir' is a game leading up to . . . other things.
no, I'm not a nerdy autistic black guy in need of orthodontic work.
He is your sir? in your beach game world?