You'll know if you're afflicted by flushedbois control if you experience a visceral loop of tensing up and reflexive swallows that restart the tension around the throat.

He 'stamps' us with calculated trauma, a loop of addiction to their bullshit.

It's driven by Aversion, the fear of relaxing into it / letting it pass through.

So relax into the tension. Aflame yourself in The One Above All's Love.

Break the loop. Let it bubble away~