You'll know if you're afflicted by flushedbois control if you experience a visceral loop of tensing up and reflexive swallows that restart the tension around the throat.
If your mind is buzzing with fear, because you don't feel safe in your own skin.
He 'stamps' us with calculated trauma, a loop of addiction to their bullshit.
It's driven by Aversion, the fear of relaxing into it / letting it pass through.
So relax into the tension. Aflame yourself in The One Above All's Love.
Break the loop. Let it bubble away~
Distractions are often more effective than outright attack, Focus