>you have to help yourself in order for him to help you
The work was completed on the cross. His victory is what saves us. All we have to do is confess and accept.
Jesus said:
"I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the father except through me."
The works are finished.
Before he died on the cross he said:
"Tetelestai"
It means: Paid in full.