Sounds like she is a narcissist. Narcissists typically target the most successful, smart men, especially if they are empaths. Narcissistic men also similarly target women with similar traits, the nicest, most beautiful and loving women and totally destroy them. Both men and women narcissists read the emotional needs of their partner, present a false ideal persona and when the target is hooked, they attack. They withhold sex, make their husband or wife feel worthless, have multiple affairs which they rub in their partner's face. This information is especially important on this board, as empaths are likely overrepresented on this board. So for those who are seeking a husband or wife or a relationship, read about narcissistic personality disorder. If you are already married or in a relationship and any of the above resonates with your experience, read about it as well. If someone is not treating you right, it is not because of you; it is probably because of them.