life in a Chinese orphanage is absolute hell - literally dog eat dog - as long as the kids do their chores, then they can do whatever they are big enough to do to the littler ones. Some orphanages are better than others. Kids are sexually abused by the bigger kids. Kids are routinely tied. Some orphanages have incompetent and/or disabled adults living in them as well. To be taken out of that hell, and into another, by a rich, affluent American is just almost more than this anon can stand. He better hang if he is not already dead.