Where are the sons ?
Hunter, Paul Pelosi, Chris Heinz, Tagg Romney
Dementia was always an act, plus they pump them up with drugs before any public appearance.
Sniffy Joe still has his marbles, but he lives in a fantasy in his head.
Anon, In crime families, you are either in the family business or out. If you are out, you attend some close family functions but other than that you are treated like a friend. If you ask for a favor, you will be expected to return a favor of the boss's choosing.
Dig away, but start with the "1971 accident". The cabal always chooses the control wife or husband.