anon, God looks at the intent of the heart.
>For man does not see as God sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart."
Celebrate with your family. Let your kids have fun. My kids were always told santa wasnt real but was a fun pretend, but they always knew the real reason Christmas is celebrated. Tree, light, holly, all created by God. Satan copies and perverts what God creates. Dont let [them] ruin your Christmas. If the intent of your heart is to honor God and Christ, the physical trappings dont matter.
>"Do not call anything impure that God has made clean."
>"Whatever you do, whether in speech or action, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus and give thanks to God the Father through him. That is, everything you do or say, do in the name of the Lord Yeshua, giving thanks through him to God the Father."