Funny thing about God. He does get guilt tripped or manipulated into doing things.
If you really want to know Him, then put a God sized effort into it. Read the Bible, meditate on it, be still and focus and wait and pray and listen and ask. Seek and knock.
If that isn’t what you are up for, then you have answered your own question. You want Him to show up at your demand, even though you worded it in a guilty trippy sort of way.
Remove the notion that He’s codependent on your approval of His methods and He’s not relationally dysfunctional in trying to keep us from being passive aggressive with Him.
He loves us right where we are with our needs and glitches, but our inability to love Him back because we perceive He has glitches is the barrier. Let go of how you think God should act and pursue Him the way He is.