hindsight is 20/20, this notion always seems hypothetical to those who cant see a rung let alone a ladder.
for me I had to get angry at being a victim of circumstance.
I spent my younger years blaming everyone under the sun for my misfortunes.
I wanted to die, it wasn't until I found peace in the hear and now exactly as I am. till I could start setting small goals and working twards them.
make no mistake tho, our guy was not to kidding when he said the system is rigged.
you will have to work your BAULZ off.