Trying to relate to normies? KISS. Keep It Simple Stupid. Don't go into specifics until the exact moment that information need to be disclosed. Avoid emotional language that describes or evokes feelings. Keep it cold and brutally factual. Make them think by asking the questions that require them to dig. This will hurt their brain, but we are used to that pain so generally we should be able to outlast any conversation. If they become emotional, terminate the conversation and leave them admirably.